Dui Effects On Family
How can I get him to stop DRINKING???
Ok so my ex & I r trying to wrk things out after being apart for 4 mos., he drank alot wen we 1st split up but now he's drinking even more. The last few nites he's been drunk & he's unbearable, not violent just obnoxious, rude to ppl, irrogant, thinks he can fight every1 wen he's never been in a fight in his life. He's 29 yrs old, we have 3 kids & I feel like I'm at a whole other level then him. I don't drink like that, I got a good job, I can take care of myself but startd feelin guilty about not tryin to give my family another chance so I went back to him. I tell him he has a problem & he says NO I DONT. How can I get him to see that he does?? This is mean but I've been prayin for somethin like a DUI, mayb that can snap him out of it, mayb seeing the booze effect him in other ways can snap him out of it...I luv him sober but CANT STAND him drunk..totally 2 different ppl...should I just let him go & move on like I had been or stick by him & keep tryin to make it work?? PLZ HELP!
You've got to be kidding with this question right?
Do you hear yourself? First of all...
You're a MOTHER... and your children are being exposed to this madness! How can you be on a "whole other level then him" when you are walking on the same ground hand in hand (so to speak).... C'mon sister! PLEZE!!!!
Get a grip and move on.. And don't wish for him to have a DUI.. because he may just kill someone. Obviously you have children and care about them a great deal... would it be ok if a person who drinks as much as he does has a DUI and hurts someone in your family... at the expense of having to "learn a lesson" Think not!!!!
So here's the answer about sticking by him and making it work... .... "NO" you can't help him.... You need to help yourself along with your three children to have a healthy life emotionally and physically...A life that is free from a destructive alcholic. Move on.. better yet... RUN!!!!!
One day he'll hit rock bottom and by the grace of God hopefully find out what he's been doing to himself and his family and his body. The danger he places himself in is really scary, especially when he challengers other people. One day someone may take him up on his offer and "JACK" him up. There's a whole lot of people who enjoy hurting people and would have not one problem adding your man to the list. Of course you know that could get not only very ugly but very deathly serious.
Each day you stay around this diseased person is another day that your children are exposed to this behavior. His behavior has the potential of ruining their lives and the worst is they may eventually become alcholics or perhaps repeat your mistake when they get older by entertaining an alcholic as a partner. Every day your children are absorbing both your habits, behaviors and lifestyle choices, and his too.... and quite frankly, they deserve MUCH better.
The only other thing you may be able to do for him before you leave is to get some information on AA meetings and a good counselor... other than that....
Get it together... take care of your children and move the heck on with a quickness.
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